Fear of Failure

How To Conquer Your Fear And Kill It On Stage: 28 Public Speaking Tips

28 tips may seem like a lot, however, considering more Americans fear public speaking than their own death, I believe more tips are better than less.

Public speaking is a skill, not a talent. It needs to be practiced at all ages. Avoiding public speaking only exacerbates the problem by reinforcing the fear. Besides, if you never present, you’ll never realize that you won’t actually die!

From Fearful to Fearless: How Understanding Criticism Makes Our Girls Brave

Unwarranted criticism. Constructive criticism. Professional criticism. Mean girl behavior. Being bullied. Being judged. Being singled out. Girls lump them all together because they all feel terrible to them. So, the simplest way to escape criticism, even though it can help you grow, is to not put yourself out there in the first place. But identifying which type of criticism is being pointed at you, it’s a lot easier to handle and more likely that you’ll get back out there.

What Helps Girls in School Will Hurt Them in the Work World

My daughter will have to play an entirely different game once she enters the workforce. She can no longer be a member of the rule police. Schools don't help us practice taking risks.  They only reward perfection, and we gals love being perfect, don’t we?  And so we hide behind our straight A’s.  It’s safe there. Unfortunately, the more we are concerned with failing, the less we can achieve, the less we can improvise and the less we can invent. As they say - nothing ventured, nothing gained.

So here are the new rules she'll have to learn.

How to be Unafraid in Asking for What You Want

Wanting to be team captain was the perfect opportunity for my daughter to practice the right way to negotiate. Unfortunately, she didn’t think so... 

She believed, like many women, that if she just worked hard, she should be recognized for her talent. Three separate studies found that women are less likely than men to negotiate for what they want. Men place themselves in more negotiation situations and view more interactions as negotiating opportunities.  They get a lot more practice in the art of asking and, therefore, a lot more comfortable than women. 

My daughter learns that how you ask can reduce the stress of asking and can be much more effective.

How Parents Can Help Their Daughters Avoid the Financial Gender Gap

Teaching girls solid financial management skills can help her avoid the statistics - women earn less, save less, retire less, and are less comfortable with managing money.

4 Steps to Mastering the Fear Your Child Will Fail

I know I’m not alone in finding this concept of letting our children fail downright terrifying.  Here’s the modern-day myth: If they fail, then people will talk about them…and us…in whispers behind our backs.  Our children will never get into college, live in our basements and everyone will see what impostors we are as parents.  So for fun, let's treat this like a phobia.